Male Revue vs. Female Stripper

What are the difference between male revue and female stripper? Why when I said I went to Chippendales Show in Vegas, I received so many negative feedback.That they are yucky, extravagant men who loves to dance and tease women on stage and grope women and take them on stage and tease them...and throw their ripped shirt off their body to the lucky girls down from the audience. AND female stripper? they got tips from whomever they've given lap dance to. Which is yuckier??? The one get the tips or the one just wanna make sure girls have their fun fullfilling their fantasies..No doubt the erotic movements by these men are really take your breath away, but at the end of the day these men are not working for tips.

They claimed that they are dancers and performers and NOT male-strippers.. I Let you be the judge when you see one of these shows.

And I kept telling myself that they are gay. (maybe just to please myself) There's NO WAY these perfect built men, good-looking and sweet in person be straight. That's just not possible...not in real world. I had came across of them in person, who praises the way you look and make you feel safe and adored and cared for. (And I kept telling myself "Naah...he just being nice, maybe he even been trained to say these kind words and make any girls fall for it"..there's NO WAY I can be with them even if they are straight...") They sure know how to push the buttons ;)

But then again, they are also human being..human who perhaps have preference and likings that are differ from others. One of them sure make my heart beats faster than it should. One of them sure sent me safe trip wishes on my phone before I leave....(then my conscience tells me: "this wouldn't be happening..he's just being nice to the fan and he wouldn't jeopardize his career and befriended to me?") All these mixed feeling left me anxious...what if this, what if that..One of them sure made me feel like leaving the world behind me and ran off somewhere...