PROs & CONs

I want to go back because...

• hot, dusty,sandy almost all year round
  
• people are crappy
• don't have many friends...loads of friends for fun, but not true friends..good friends left,pursuing their live goals
• everyone in hurry, no time made for each other..no quality time
• never feel like home here, constitution sucks-no law in favour to expats here
• never would be able to get benefits as locals do
  
• the rich treat the poor badly, no conscience (the poor are also human for heavensake!)
• superficial..no real greens...imagine if one wants to take kids out to play--->IN A MALL?? and it is charged by the hour! Kids don't get to learn dirty..how to improve their immune if everything is indoor???
  
• i don't want to raise kids here in this country (I want my kids to earn what they want, not take things for granted)
• misses the rain/food/friends
• I can ride motorbike (been dreaming all this time)
  

I want to stay because..

• no one bothers us here
  
• no one care about what car we drive, what clothes we wear, how much we spend
• i love my job, my flying job.. hate the company but it does take me places
• i may not able to travel freely like now as i have to buy full fare tickets
• afraid that my families/relatives would be nosy with my family's way of life
• worries that Kalle would find another (younger/skinnier/prettier) Malaysian girls as these girls would do anything if they want (touche)
  
• we can make more money here
• it's halfway between Malaysia and Finland, strategic location