My dear Lord..already three years I've been married???? Feels like yesterday. There's so many ups and downs you don't want to know..I'm going to tell anyway..haha! suck on that! We been together for 7 years 4 months 1 week and 3 days. The roller coaster ride we been through can be daunting sometimes, feelings are we going to be together till the end, are we going to change at some point, are we still going to love each other, are we going to be fighting over picking up socks all over the floor every time it happens, or are we just going to accept things doesn't always happen the way we hoped it would be and adjust ourselves to suit the other.
And always talk about what's bothering us (I learned this when I met Kalle, coz I'm the one kind that doesn't like to keep nagging or say it out loud how I feel about something and hoped it would go away) Wrong. You have to acknowledge that we can't read minds..(although, some people they are proactive hence no need to tell what to do..and anticipate each others' need).They are the exceptions, but most of us, we have to verbally communicate to achieve what we want.
Weird enough, he likes it when I nag ( I know right...too good to be true??) Having a fish memory he said, he rather me kept telling him. I don't like that in the beginning, but he really doesn't seem to mind at all. Although I did remind him that he'd like it now..but what about the next 20 years along the path, would he still like a nagging wife??
I'm not perfect either..none of us is but we are just perfect for each other. I couldn't have ask for anyone better than him to be by my side on my death bed as my husband and best friend even though sometimes I feel like smacking him at the back of his head for something he did that make me angry or sad.
Here we are, today, uttering the word I love you everyday and hugs and kisses and laughter and tears that come along the way, we are going strong.
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